I don’t think that the
lists are of much interest to the classes that they profile, nor to students
younger than them (e.g. current Appleby students,) but older generations are
often fascinated by these younger generations’ realities. Here are a few
examples from the list for the (university) class of 2017:
1. Eminem and LL Cool J could show
up at parents’ weekend.
2. They are the sharing
generation, having shown tendencies to share everything, including possessions,
no matter how personal.
3.
GM means food that is
Genetically Modified.
4.
As they started to crawl, so
did the news across the bottom of the television screen.
5.
“Dude” has never had a negative
tone.
6. As their parents held them as
infants, they may have wondered whether it was the baby or Windows 95 that had
them more excited.
7. As kids they may well have seen
Chicken Run but probably never got chicken pox.
8. Having a chat has seldom
involved talking.
9. Gaga has never been baby talk.
10.
They could always get rid of
their outdated toys on eBay.
11.
They have known only two
presidents.
12.
Their TV screens keep getting
smaller as their parents’ screens grow ever larger.
13.
PayPal has replaced a pen pal
as a best friend on line.
14.
Rites of passage have more to
do with having their own cell phone and Skype accounts than with getting a
driver’s license and car.
Many of these resonate
with me as a parent, and some do in my reality as an educator. For instance #2
about sharing – we have lots of challenges with students regularly exchanging
clothing, like we live in a communal clothing bank, which makes issues of
missing/lost/stolen articles, at best, somewhat ambiguous. Although there is
something to be said for underlying values on this one.
I am also struck by #14
– how getting a driver’s license is often met with ambivalence compared to the unbridled
anticipation mixed with anxiety of potentially failing the test when I was
growing up.
In some ways, the first list from Beloit
for the class of 2002 (i.e. published in 1998) is just as interesting. Here are some of the realties for that group (Appleby’s class of
1998 +/-) back when they graduated:
- They
have no meaningful recollection of the Reagan era, and did not know he had
ever been shot.
- They
were prepubescent when the Persian Gulf War was waged.
- Black
Monday 1987 is as significant to them as the Great Depression.
- There
has only been one Pope. They can only remember one other president.
- They
were 11 when the Soviet Union broke apart, and do not remember the Cold
War.
- Their
lifetime has always included AIDS.
- They
never had a polio shot, and likely, do not know what it is.
- Bottle
caps have not always been screw off, but have always been plastic. They
have no idea what a pull top can looks like.
- Atari
pre-dates them, as do vinyl albums.
- They
have likely never played Pac Man, and have never heard of
"Pong."
- There
have always been red M&Ms, and blue ones are not new. What do you mean
there used to be beige ones?
- The
compact disc was introduced when they were one year old.
- They
have always had an answering machine.
- Most
have never seen a TV set with only 13 channels, nor have they seen a black
& white TV.
- They
have always had cable.
- They
cannot fathom what it was like not having a remote control.
- "The
Tonight Show" has always been with Jay Leno.
- Popcorn
has always been cooked in the microwave.
- They
never took a swim and thought about Jaws.
- They
have no idea that Americans were ever held hostage in Iran.
- They
can't imagine what hard contact lenses are.
- They
never heard the terms "Where's the Beef?", "I'd walk a mile
for a Camel" or "De plane, de plane!"
- Michael
Jackson has always been white.
- Kansas,
Boston, Chicago, America, and Alabama are all places—not music groups.
- McDonald's never came in Styrofoam containers.
It is interesting to note
that this cohort is now 33 and many have their own children. Some might even
have students starting in Appleby this year or in the next few.
So what does it all
mean? On one level, I find these both entertaining and a sober reminder of my
own aging. But they also make me think about the notions of adaptability and
flexibility.
I was lucky to know
three of my four grandparents. I had the very good fortune of growing up within
100 metres of their homes, so we were close. Three of them were born in the
last 2 decades of the 19th Century and my maternal grandmother, whom
I knew the best, was born in 1901. When she was dying over a period of many
months, I tried to spend lots of time with her and ask her about her life and
her experiences growing up in the same house she ended up dying in. It is
located in central Toronto (Yonge and St. Clair, for those who are familiar with
the city) but when she was growing up, it was forests and farmers’ fields, and
she got around in a horse-drawn carriage.
In our conversations, what struck me
most was the remarkable change that she saw over her life: She lived during the
Boer War, World War I, World War II, the Korean War, the Cold War, the War in
Vietnam; the Russian Revolution, the re-drawing of the World map through the
treaty of Versailles, the creation of the League of Nations and later the
United Nations; the Chinese Revolution, the fall of the Berlin Wall and the
reunification of Germany; the time of horse-drawn carriages to space shuttles;
the introduction of women’s suffrage to women’s liberation to post-feminism;
the transformation of medical science; 12 Prime Ministers (Laurier to
Mulroney), 9 popes, and 5 monarchs. As profound as these world events were, however,
I began to understand that the changes in day-to-day living and social interactions
– notions of morality, religion, communities, diversity, travel, communication,
etc. – were just as significant.
What amazed me the most
was how well my grandmother adapted to the changes over her 90 years, and how
at peace she was with the changed world in which she lived. Many of the foundational
assumption under which she grew up were flipped on their ear … and some many
times over.
Futurists tell us that
my generation will live through ten times the change that my grandmother did,
and current students ten times the change that my generation will experience. It
is difficult to comprehend the implication of these projections, even if they
are only half right.
There are two very
clear implications. The first is a challenge to parents and educators – to understand
where students today are coming from. What are their motivators, values, and
realities … our own version of the Beloit list? Because influencing attitudes
and behavior must stem from understanding of what drives the people we are
trying to influence. And knowing that the half-life of change is getting shorter
and shorter, the importance of this understanding is amplified. This places a
huge imperative on ongoing professional development and challenging ourselves constantly to
differentiate between what is the same about our contexts and what is
different.
The second implication
is the imperative for young people to develop traits of flexibility,
adaptability, problem-solving, and perseverance. One could easily make an
argument that this set of skills may be the most important ones with which to
equip students when thinking about life-long success. They are very much
intertwined with empathy and risk-taking. And Charles Swindoll’s quote (which I
discussed in the start of year address)
sums up the core challenge in dealing with this change: “I am convinced that life
is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it.”
Throughout this year, I
will post thoughts on what we are doing now and what we are considering doing in the future
here at Appleby to address these essential aspects of “performance character.”
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