Good Morning and Welcome Back Everyone for the start of Appleby
College’s 102nd school year
I am really pumped about the year ahead, as I hope you are.
Lots has happened in the world since we last saw each other at the Closing
ceremonies two and a half months ago down by the lake on a glorious sunny day.
That was the time when the class of 2013 were elevated to alumni status, and
each of you moved up one rung on the ladder of school progress, school leadership,
and coolness.
And at that time, the class of 2014 became the standard bearers for what
Appleby school culture will be this year. And I mean the entire class – not
just those in formal leadership positions. So congratulations to the Senior 2s – I know
how talented you guys are, and we have high expectations for your achievements,
for your role modeling, and for your leadership this year.
A great deal has happened since that time in June. In the world:
And at Appleby, there was a terrific amount of activity.
We had our busiest season of camps in a very long time
– with almost 4000 kids here – more than a 50% increase from last year. I know
that many of you were helping out with the camp
I also saw many of you here for courses this summer.
Those of you who were here will know that in many ways
the campus is actually busier during the summer than in the rest of the year.
And
on top of it all, it is Appleby construction season. Lots has been done here in
terms of renovations and building, but I’ll mention just a few:
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Girls of Walker, you are finally “in the club.” The residence is now air conditioned like the other three
- There arena ice making improvements are being completed this month
- The art classroom has undergone a complete renovation and an expansion
- The LEC has been completely re-designed and renovated. I think that it is the most interesting and well-designed learning space on campus and rates up there with top university mini-lecture theatres
- And finally, this summer, we undertook phase 2 of the 3-phase complete renovation of the Memorial Classroom Building, which was built 60 years as a memorial to the Appleby men who were killed in the Second World War. The focus this summer was the mechanical systems – plumbing, electrical, heating & cooling – and the basement classrooms and offices. To be honest there are a couple of things still being worked on:
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The classroom lighting systems are delayed, so there are some temporary ones in place. They will be replaced as soon as the new ones arrive.
- There is a little bit of painting/finishing here and there to be done
- The most notable issue – for only the next day, and it is an important one – is that the bathrooms are not quite complete. The stalls are being put in. I am confident that they will be done by tomorrow. So in interim, use some of the other ones on campus, and DO NOT take the advice of “man’s best friend” (Video clip of dog trying to teach “his beloved human” how to go to bthe bathroom outside)
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One of the
other improvements is the AV system in here (the gym)
- In all
seriousness – the renovations in the Memorial Building look amazing . The
basement classrooms and offices have shifted from being dark, rabbit-warren,
dingy places, to big, bright, beautiful classrooms. Despite being in the lower
level, it certainly doesn’t feel that way at all. I think they are the nicest
classrooms on campus, and they include new furniture. So, no more bolted desks,
and my favourite – no more rickety, hard blue chairs that tend to collapse.
Next summer
the classrooms and hallways on the upper two floors of the Memorial Building will
be done.
I know you
want to join me in thanking the many people who brought about all these
transformations, in continuing to make the Appleby campus one of the very
nicest, if not the best, in Canada.
Now, let me shift gears.
I said welcome back to your first day. In reality, many of you have been
here for a while. All the boarders moved in late last week, and our new
students were here for orientation on Friday. Our new boarders arrived last Tuesday,
so there has been a lot going on.
I am not going to repeat my speech to them, but let me highlight one
thing I said on Friday morning:
“Whether you
are a boy or a girl; whether you are from Oakville or Mississauga or Etobicoke
or Burlington or PEI or Germany or Nigeria or China; whether you bit shorter or
taller than average, or a bit bigger (like me) or smaller; whether you are gay
or straight; whether you are Catholic or Muslim or Jewish or Hindu or agnostic
or Anglican; whether you are a jock or a geek or an artsy; or not quite sure;
or whether you are a bit of everything, you have a place here.
We revel in
our diversity. And so long as you are
committed to being engaged in school life and activities, and show respect for
others, you have a place here, and you will be supported, and you will make
friends. There is an endless supply of people, students and staff, who are
there for you, who are here to help you, and who will help make sure that you
feel like you belong.”
One of the things I have great confidence in, based on what you guys
told me in our lunches last year, is that you, the returning students, were
well taken care when you started. I know that you will ensure that you show our
new members of the Appleby community every kindness and a generosity of spirit
that is our hallmark. On that note, I would like you to join together to welcome
all of our new students – who are an exceptionally talented and nice group – as
I ask them to stand.
I have two last messages for you this morning
The first relates to a video that some of you have probably already seen. It's about time.
While that video is about your life, the number of jelly beans can
also relate to your year at Appleby. With all those jelly beans, each one is roughly
equal to 2 minutes of your time over the next year.
Think of last year, whether you were at Appleby or another school. Try
to remember back to exactly one year ago. What were your hopes? What were your
expectations? What were your worries?
Was it just to make it through with okay marks and good friendships? Did
you have any goals with respect to academics? Were you to hoping to learn a new
sport or make a team? Were you planning to try a new activity? Or putting
yourself out in a performance? Or focused on helping others? Or trying to learn
about another culture?
And at the end of the year, what did you achieve? And how well did it
match-up with what you had planned?
One of the most common pieces of advice I hear from Appleby alumni is to
encourage you, our students, to use your time wisely – to be deliberate. Because
your time here will go faster than you can ever imagine. Please take a bit of
time this week to ask yourself what you want to feel at the end of June? What
do you want to get done? What do you want to achieve? It might have to do with classes, or co-curriculars,
or relationships. Use those jelly beans wisely.
Finally, I would like to tell you about a friend of mine named Chris
Taylor. CT, as he is known is about 12 years older than me and I worked with
him for about seven or eight years. One of the things about CT is you can’t
have a two minute conversation with him. He hits you with a tidal wave of
enthusiasm and energy. Everything is always positive with him.
And whatever you do, do not ask him about his kids, or you will be there
for an hour as he recounts his pride in his three sons. He is far and away the
most positive guy I know.
About 12 years ago, CT was at his school and went to give blood at the
clinic that he has arranged on campus. Not surprisingly, CT was one of those
great donors who had donated more than 50 times and was always encouraging
other to do the same. In the screening, when they prick your finger to check on
blood levels, they told him that his levels were a bit off and that he couldn’t
give that day, and he should see a doctor very soon.
That started a terrible journey with multiple battles with cancer – a blend
of leukemia and lymphoma – it took a year to even diagnose him. He has had a
stem cell transplant – and at least 3 recurrences of the cancer. It hasn’t been
easy on him, but CT is doing ok and he has far exceeded what the doctors
advised him was going to happen. He has twice bicycled to Niagara Falls as part
of the Ride for the Cure. You may have seen him and his son (his donor) on a
Princess Margaret Hospital ad.
And you know what? He is still just as positive and enthusiastic and
generous as he was when I first met him. And even more, anyone who know CT is absolutely
convinced that his almost unbelievable success must be due in part to
his attitude and his positive nature.
This summer, I have been listening to some shows about Philosophical
Practitioners – those who use philosophy to help with counseling. And I am
taken with the words of a guy named Charles Swindoll (an unfortunate name, but
a wise man) who says:
“We cannot change our past,
we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change
the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and
that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and
90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you, we are in charge of our
Attitudes.”
“The pursuit of happiness
is a matter of choice – it is a positive attitude we choose to express. It is
not a gift delivered to our door each morning, nor does it come through the window.
And it is certain that our circumstances are not the things that make us
joyful. If we wait for them to get just right, we will never laugh again.”
Any
of you who have seen true poverty in the world I suspect will understand what
Swindoll is saying.
To use a baseball analogy – perhaps ill-advised after the Blue Jays
year, but I’ll do it anyway – this year you will get lots of hits, including
some homers. You’ll get some pitches that look as big as a beach ball and
you’ll hit ‘em out of the park. But you will also get some tough pitches – some
knuckleballs, curveballs and even some spitballs. You will have times when you
strike out.
In those times remember those words: life is 10% what happens to me and 90%
of how I react to it. That is some of the wisest advice I have heard in a very
long time.
So,
in closing, welcome to our new students, enjoy the improvements in this
incredible campus, use your jelly beans wisely, and remember life is 10% what
happens to me and 90% of how I react to it.
Let’s
have a great year